3 Reasons People Choose To Remain Single
We live in a society where they push the idea that you must have a relationship to feel content in life as though the relationship is a prerequisite to success.
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The thing is being single gives you the time to work on yourself, to do what you’ve always wanted to do, improve your business idea, meditate.
In some cases, it could be based on a person’s background, it could even be a psychological issue however most people of their own accord decide to be single. I personally enjoy my own company than other peoples.
Here are 3 Reasons Why People Would Rather be Single
1. Boundaries
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People often control and guard their boundaries and their routine in order to feel safe. This could, however, make them afraid of engaging in an authentic intimate emotional exchange, they’ll become so comfortable in their routine that they’ll find it difficult to share their personal space.
People tend to enjoy their company meaning they begin to cultivate their individuality.
2. Self-Development
Relationships don’t always equate to happiness and before you argue let’s take a moment to check the divorce rate. Some single people see relationship as overrated and don’t see the need to put in the work just for things to later end.
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People choose to work on themselves first because this allows one to build character and strengthen their weakness.
This helps them in being better partners when they’re eventually ready to be in a relationship, they would have taken time to enjoy their singleness.
3. Standards
Standards are very important, most people would rather remain single than go into any relationship for the sake of society, nobody wants to be a settler.
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Although sometimes we have this unrealistic expectation of people or we are already pinpointing their weakness, often times we refuse people before even giving them the chance.
Here’s the thing, growing up most of us already had ideas about what we wanted so having those standards about what we want can be challenging especially if going below makes it look as though you're settling.
Are you single based on personal choice or circumstance? share with me in the comment section.